wealth without wanting
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My friend Marty has been retired for forty-six years. He lives simply. Grateful for what he has. When I joined him once, we ate peanut butter and jelly sandwiches by the water. It tasted better than any five-star meal I’ve ever had. I also know people worth a hundred million dollars who still feel restless. Most are anxious. It made me realize something. It seems like people who have everything but want more There’s a Stoic idea that says Marty figured that out long ago. Happiness isn’t in the amount. |
Josh Braun
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